Family time can sometimes seem impossible to come by. Families often become so busy that feels you only see your loved ones as they head out to school or work in the mornings, and then again before bed. And it’s absolutely possible that on some days you text them more than you talk! Luckily, adding more time with your family doesn’t need to be difficult. Since making time for family can be a common New Year’s resolution for parents to make, I figured this was the perfect time to share my 6 tips to more family time in 2015!
Sit down at the dinner table. With super busy schedules, dinner time can get lost in the rush. However, having dinner at the table as a family offers a great chance for discussion and bonding. Everyone gets a chance to speak, and memories can be made over the meal. Admittedly this one is tough for me because I tend to use the time that the kids are eating to load the dishwasher and tidy up the kitchen, but it doesn’t have to be all of nothing. Try adding in a family meal once or twice a week and then increasing from there.
Turn household chores into fun for everyone. It’s no secret that I don’t like cleaning…but it has to be done. Don’t count yours kids out just because they’re little. Instead,give them tasks that they find entertaining and can handle. My girls love to sweep and fold laundry, and can actually do a pretty good job when directed. They also do a great job at clearing tables, putting away utensils, and vacuuming. Better yet, partner up (one parent with one or two children) and make it a race with a prize for the whole family at the very end. Think ice cream sundae party at home, movie out with the family, or a trip to the park.
Learn to say “no”. Maybe your co-worker wants you to pick up a couple hours of his shift or your buddies ask you out for drinks after work. Before taking on another time consuming duty, consider your family. Saying “no”won’t harm anyone, and it gives you more time to spend with loved ones.
Read together before bed. Even the shortest book (or a single chapter of a longer book) gives you quality time your family. Everyone can pile in your bed so they can enjoy the book before drifting off. This also lets your kids know the importance of reading, and will help them enjoy books.
Find things you all have in common. It may seem difficult to get family time in when everyone likes different things. However, there is bound to be at least one or two activities the entire family enjoys. Sit down and consider local options, including mini-golf, bowling, a trip to the park, or a zoo visit. Plan to have one outing each month where you do something that interests everyone. Alternatively, you could have take turns each month, choosing something one family member enjoys. This can expose all members to new hobbies and interests!
Plan a family calendar. If everyone has their own schedule and it seems impossible to get everyone together, sit down and create a calendar. Give everyone a different colored marker and fill in the month with activities and events. Then, from the days and times left over, plan a couple of family nights or outings. It doesn’t take much to fit in more family time, just 1-2 hours planned each week is sufficient – though it’s possible you’ll find more once you map out everyone’s schedules!
How do you plan to get more time with your family in 2015?
